Saturday, 22 September 2012

The Last Blooms of Summer

When we went to the Secret Gardens - though they're really NOT so secret these days :o) - I took photos of the last flowers. If these are anything to go by, the Spring & Summer displays will be really beautiful :o)
 
 
This beautiful rose was in the border just after the Tropical Garden & looked so lovely with the sun shining on it.


 Not quite sure what this is, possibly from the Echinacea family ? Either way, the colour is gorgeous.
 
 
One of my favourites - the sunflower that really DOES do what it says on the box :o) Gardens with sunflowers in them seem to be brighter than those without.
 
 

A two toned dahlia, complete with buzzy bee :o) I can't, for the life of me, remember what this dahlia was called, but it had a lovely name &, judging by the bees, butterflies & grasshoppers around them, the wildlife really loved them, too :o)



 A white butterfly resting on the dahlia. There were loads of butterflies dancing amongst the garden, but this dahlia border seemed to attract the most.
 
 
 I think this grasshopper needs lessons in camouflage :o) A few inches to the left & he'd have had a better chance of not being spotted.
 
 
 I just loved this dahlia - the colours are so bright  cheerful.
 
 
 The bee liked this one, too :o)
 
 
 The cosmos were blowing about gently in the breeze. The borders looked so lovely with them all swaying from side to side.
 
 
 This pink dahlia was lovely with it's deeper pink centre & each layer getting paler & paler.There was a real cluster of flowers on this plant - & best of all - NO earwigs :o)


 A sunburst, fireball or flower ? Definitely a striking dahlia :o)


 The cosmos were so paper thin & delicate. The colours were beautiful.


 Each flower was slightly different but they all had a fragile beauty to them.
 
 

 Photos really don't do them justice. The colour around the edge of this cosmos was so rich & deep in comparison to the rest of it.
 
 
 So many different shades of pink.
 
 
 But - most importantly of all . . .
 
 
 STRIPPITY STRIPPAGE :o)
 
You can't get better than that, really :o)
 


Sunday, 16 September 2012

A Morning Out

After having a fairly hectic summer, what with things breaking, family worries & the general pace of life these days, we met our lovely friend, Val, in Sandwich for a mooch about in the Secret Gardens.
Val has been many times & it's been on our *Must Visit* list for a few years, so when she suggested meeting up we jumped at the chance. Well, *I* jumped, Shaun sort of did a wheelie in his wheelchair !! :o)  No, not really . . . he just agreed it would be a nice morning out :o)
 
The gardens surround The Salutation House, designed by the famous English architect, Edwin Lutyens & built in 1911 in the Arts & Crafts style.  Lutyens was commissioned to design the war memorials in the larger cemeteries & is also responsible for the design of the Cenotaph in London, built as a permanent reminder of those killed in action during WW1 & now also for those killed since.
 
The gardens were designed by Lutyens & planted by Gertrude Jeykyll, one of the most famous female gardeners of all time. The original woodland area, White Garden, Yellow Garden, wild meadow garden & the bowling green, are still in evidence today, along with more recent additions such as the Tropical Garden.There is also a small lake - Lake Patricia, obviously named after me !! :o) - & an island, which were reinstated in 2007. Dotted about the 3.5 acres are metal animal statues which can be bought from the artist - if you're rich enough :o) We saw a foal, a really lovely giraffe, a mother pig & her piglet - so sweet !! - & some pumpkins that were brilliant. They really looked good because they were among the pumpkins growing in the veg garden :o)

This is the first proper view of the house. When you enter the gardens, there's a small hut where you pay the entrance fee. To the left of that is the entrance to the gardens & after you've walked a few yards, this is the view to your right.
 
 
This is the path through the Tropical Garden. Because it's the end of the summer, everything is dying down now, so it wasn't at its best for our visit. The path was difficult to negotiate pushing a wheelchair, but we managed. Next time, we'll take the mobility scooter :o)
 
 
A view of the house from the far side of the gardens. It really is a stunning place.
 
In the woodland area, there are a couple of seating areas. This chair thingy caught my eye - it looks like it's made from antlers but is all wood.


Part of the woodland area with a shaft of sunlight coming through the trees. It's only small but it's peaceful & very whimsical. You can almost imagine a playful elf or gnome darting about playing hide & seek with you. Or, maybe that's just me !! :o)
 
 
 

This is one of the flower borders. The orange of the Chinese Lanterns against the yellow of the Golden Rod is something to see. It gives off a warm, Autumnal feeling &, in *real life* is beautiful.
 
In the Spring & early Summer, this woodland garden is covered with wild flowers. There were only a few cornflowers left but the statue of the foal was still there. Val said there had been a bigger *Mummy* statue there a few weeks ago, but it must have been sold because we didn't see it anywhere else in the gardens.


Now, I LOVED this statue :o) A headless ghostly woman.  I don't know why I loved it, Val doesn't, she finds it creepy, but I just thought it was fab. I also love the area it's in - a corner of the bowling green, with St. Clement's Church tower hovering in the background :o)
 
 
 Here she is again, posed as though she's pointing to the church :o)
 

 
This is the house from the bowling green. It's beautiful & very impressive, but, unfortunately, it isn't open to the public :o(
 
 
If I remember correctly, this cottage can be rented for holidays.  It overlooks the Yellow Garden & is pretty big for a cottage :o)
 
A view of the gardens. Because the borders are quite high, it's almost as though the gardens are made up of individual rooms.
 
Amongst the bird song, we could hear chainsaws & other machinery as the gardeners were busy cutting back & tidying up, getting the gardens ready for bed over the winter.
 
 
The island & Lake Patricia, complete with visitor :o)
The crocodile or alligator - not sure which, sorry - is HUGE. It's beautifully made & looks pretty ferocious :o)
 
Looking at the little patio area - where I took the photo above this one  - from the island. It's very small but has room for a pergola with  table & 4 chairs inside. A beautiful spot to just sit & be quiet for a while.
 
A view of the lake from the island.
 
 
I took a fair few pics of the flowers & plants around the gardens, but I'll save those for another time.
We will definitely go back again, hopefully before Christmas, because I think all the seasons have something to show us in a garden. Autumn is my favourite time of year, so maybe we'll get there sometime in the next couple of months.
 
Now, though, I need to ring my Mum & wish her happy birthday & I need to finish icing a cake for grandson 1a who is ALSO celebrating his birthday today :o) He's 4, but my Mum is a wee bitty bit older than that :o)
 
Have a great Sunday, whatever you're doing.
 
 
 


Thursday, 13 September 2012

OOH !! What a palaver !!! :o)

August is beginning to be a month that I dread. It seems that it's becoming a month where everything goes wrong. This August, the *everything happens in threes* saying became, for us, the *everything happens in MULTIPLES of threes* !! :o)

First of all, Shaun's mobility scooter broke down when we went to Fowlmead (see last blog post) & it turned out that a new throttle cable was needed. Unfortunately, the mobility shop were sent the wrong part & consequently, the scooter was in the shop for a fortnight. A few days later, on Tuesday afternoon, we went out for a walk & it just wasn't right - it was SOOO slow, it couldn't keep up with me walking along the road. So, Shaun phoned the shop & they arranged to pick it up on the Friday afternoon & have a look at it. When they bought it back, Shaun tried it out & it conked out halfway across the road. Thankfully, the mobility blokes were still here & helped get him back up to the house. They took the scooter away again, but as it was the Friday before Bank Holiday, we were, yet again, scooter-less. It was returned the following week having had some electrical connectors twiddled with :o) So far, he's used it once, just to go up the road & back. We've yet to put it in the car & take it somewhere, only to be disappointed that it's conked out, so WATCH THIS SPACE !!! :o)

Anyway, to cut a long story short - yaaaaaaaaaaaaaawn !!! - the other things that have gone wrong are as follows:

2 - the ceiling light/fan pull came *orf in me 'and*. That was a palaver, I can tell you. Because Shaun is unable to stand or go up steps etc., muggins here had to unscrew & lower said light fitting from the ceiling & then, following instructions/ORDERS from himself, had to redo the light pull with electrical connectors - or something - & then screw it all back together on the ceiling.  Note how well up I am on the technical terms, please :o)

3 - my iron broke. Water started coming out of the handle & the foot plate. As I'm sure you can imagine, I was HEARTBROKEN. Completely & utterly gutted. My beautiful iron . . . sob :o(
I hate ironing. Can you tell ? :o) Anyway, I had to buy another one. Sob :o(

4 - the microwave suddenly stopped in the middle of doing some jacket potatoes. Ugh. Luckily, it turned out to be nothing more than a blown fuse.

5 - my beautiful stripy broom handle broke in half. Now, THAT I really WAS sad about !! Not because I couldn't sweep the floor, but because it was my beautiful STRIPY broom !!!  I now have a silver handle attched to a stripy broom head. If I'm not careful, I'll end up like Trigger from *Only Fools & Horses* & will have the same broom for 10 years - only it'll have had 3 new heads & 2 new handles !! :o)

6 - my kitchen scales decided to play silly wotsits. I weighed something out & it showed the correct weight, so I then added something & it was suddenly only half of what it had been. (Wish it worked like that for ME on the bathroom scales !!) After that happened 2 or 3 times, I decided it might be best to buy some new scales.

7 - the hoover lost the will to live :o(    One minute it was fine'n'dandy, the next it was squealing like it had sucked up a cat playing bagpies !! AND - when I switched it off, it refused to stand upright. The handle just kept throwing itself to the floor. I swear, if it could talk, it would have said something along the lines of *it's no good - I can't go on !!* & then just fluttered its eyelids & died. Which it pretty much did, really. So, now I have a new hoover. I've given it a good talking to & told it, in no uncertain terms, that if it decides to die on me, it has to do it quietly & not make a mess on the floor :o)

8 - Shaun's sewing machine decided to follow the hoover & threw itself to its death by falling off the table. Because he can't use his legs, he gave his electric sewing machine to our daughter & he had an old fashioned Singer that has a turny handle. The metal bar that makes the needle go up & down snapped off inside the machine & unfortunately, couldn't be fixed. That machine was over 100 years old & had a lovely stitch. So I was told - what do I know ? Sewing & I are NOT friends & never have been, not since the day I was 13 & in sewing class at school & somehow managed to sew my school skirt to the skirt I was making. My teacher told me NEVER to darken her classroom doorstep again. So I didn't.

And finally - the worst thing of all:

9 - MY COMPUTER DIED !!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!
Just like the hoover, one day it was fine, the next it wasn't. I'd used it on the Monday evening, but on Tuesday morning, it was as dead a a dead thing can possibly be. If not deadererer.  I phoned PC World insurance thingy & was given a reference number & told to take the pc into the shop. Luckily, I have insurance on the pc that included data recovery, so along with the pc, I had to give them an external hard drive to save anything they could. It was away in the pc hospital for 2 weeks & it turned out that it had suffered from hard drive failure & power supply failure. My poor pooter had DIED :o(  Just like that. No indication that anything was wrong, no please-may-I-be-excused-I'm-not-feeling-very-well. Nothing. Just here one minute & gone the next. Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh. However, the boffins at PC World DID manage to save all my photos, files & what have you. HOORAY !!!

So, here I am, 10 days after picking my pc back up, STILL trying to get it to how I had it & not getting anywhere very fast. It's been a busy couple weeks, what with medical apointments, but we had a lovely morning out yesterday, so the next blog will be about that. With pics. Nothing boring like this one, I promise :o)

Wednesday, 1 August 2012

Frustrations, friends, fun & new experiences :o)

This morning, Shaun had yet another hospital appointment, but as it was an early one at Deal, we had arranged to meet friends at Fowlmead Country Park at Sholden, between Sandwich & Deal. It's a 200 acre park, regenerated from the shale spoil tip at what used to be Betteshanger Colliery.

Betteshanger was the last of Kent's four colliery's to close & from 1989 to 2000, it was left to nature. In 2000, SEEDA (South East England Development Agency) bought the land & set about turning it into a country park, complete with a 2 mile cycling track. The park opened to the public in 2007 & soon proved a popular place to visit.

The cycling track is used by professionals as well as the general public & you can also go running, mountain biking,  collect fossils & take part in orienteering, geocaching, archery, walking, &  bushcraft . There is a BMX area for kids to practice their skills & a play area for children aged 4-14. It costs £1.50 to park all day & there is a cafe that serves food from 10am.

In the first 2 or 3 years, we went quite a few times. There's always something different to see in each season & as we've not been able to go for a couple of years, I was really looking forward to it.

The day dawned bright & sunny & as I'd put the mobility scooter in the car last night, all I had to do was get Shaun to the car & put the wheelchair on the backseat. We set off & got to the hospital at about 8:45am. We made our way to the clinic & only waited for 5 minutes before being called in. We were out by 9am, 10 minutes before the actual appointment time !! How's that for service, eh ? :o)

A flurry of texts was sent - me to Val, Val to Kris & back again - & we arranged to meet in the car park at Fowlmead.

We pulled up & I set to, getting the scooter out of the back of the car. When it was all put together, Shaun turned the key & it just beep-beep-beeped & wouldn't move !!! Now, it was fine when he drove it down to the car last night & it was fine when he used it a few days ago. This exact same thing happened in April when we took grandson 1a to Dover Castle :o(  We had it looked at by the mobility shop we use & they replaced a bush or something (technical stuff & I are NOT friends !!!) & it was fine when we took grandson 1a to Walmer Castle on 2 July. However, it seems that there must be an electrical problem or something's been shaken loose on the drive from Ramsgate to Deal & now, we have to wait for the mobility people to pick it up & have a look on Friday afternoon.

To say I was disappointed is probably the understatement of the year. The scooter wasn't the ONLY thing that beep-beep-beeped, let me tell you !! It seems whenever we try to go somewhere or do something - which, given Shaun's health problems isn't that often - something goes wrong & stops us from having fun :o(

By now, Val had arrived & suggested we have a cuppa while we wait for Kris, Steve & their grandsons,  & then decide what to do instead of walking around the park. I got Shaun into his wheelchair & off we went to the cafe. While we were there, Shaun spotted a notice about disabled bikes for hire at the park, so once Kris & Steve arrived, we went to see what it was all about.

WELL !!! They have bikes that are pedalled BY HAND !!! The day was saved !!! Val sorted out the hiring details while Shaun had a practice to see if he could use the bike. His legs had to be strapped on to stop them doing their own thing - which, as he can't control them, they do frequently !! :o) - & as I had to lift his leg up over the crossbar, everyone else held the bike still so he didn't fall flat on his face :o) When he was settled, off we set, on our grand adventure :o)


 Seems there's NOWHERE safe from hoodies these days !!! :o))
(Hi, Kris !!)


 A view of Fowlmead lake. This lake is just BEE-OO-TEE-FUL. You can't see much of it at this time of year because of the greenery, but in the winter, you can really see how big it is.

 Looking across a field of cows towards Sandwich.

 Why did the bull rush ? Because he saw the cow slip !! :o) Ah, the oldies are the goodies :o)

 Wildflowers & weeds :o)

 The little bridge over the pond.

 This photo reminds me of the Eva Cassidy song *Fields of Gold*.


 The lookout seen from the bigger bridge. All the green on the right of this photo is Fowlmead lake :o)

 Shaun on his chariot :o)  Even with his legs strapped in, his right foot still managed to slip forward. It just will not do what it's supposed to.

 Beautiful teasels :o) VERY sharp & spiky, as I found to my cost when I brushed past one :o(

 Val & I have christened this the *Teddy bear shaving bush*  - yes, bush, not brush -  plant !! It is the softest thing I think I've ever felt in my life.

 We patted this little plant over & over again - it was SO soft & springy, just like a comfy cushion :o)

 A beaten track off the beaten track :o) 

 I talk to the trees, but they don't listen to me !! :o)
Talking of trees, while we were wandering round, Val pointed at a really gnarled & multi-branched tree & said  *I wonder how old that tree is*. So, being the nice, kind girl I am I went & asked it !! :o) I don't think it understood English though, cos it didn't answer me :o) 

The winner of the bike race - Shaun, talking to his coach/trainer, Steve & the runners up, Kris & Steve's grandsons :o)

After all the kerfuffle with the scooter, we had a lovely morning & it didn't rain till we got to the car :o)

No matter what's happening in your life, a couple of hours spent in the company of good friends is the ideal pick-me-up, so THANK YOU, Val, Kris & Steve, for a fab morning :o)

Oh, & by the way: FLY ME TO THE MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOON !!!!!

I can caterwaul - or should that be PAT-erwaul - to my hearts' delight here. There are no unsuspecting cyclists or walkers to fall in the lake when they hear me sing !! :o))

Saturday, 21 July 2012

Ohhhhhhhh . . . I do like to be beside the seasiiiiiiide !!!

Memories of  long, hot, sunny summers . . . & then there was 2012 :o)

Although I was *made in Birmingham* &, like all good things from Birmingham, have the stamp on my bum to prove it, I'm a Ramsgate girl through & through. I'm sure if I was cut in half, you'd find my name stamped in the middle, just like a decent bit of seaside rock :o) I couldn't imagine living anywhere else & even though my brothers, sister & parents have all moved away, I'm still here, held by invisible roots. If I was being fanciful, I'd go as far as to say that my ancestors have grabbed my ankles & are refusing to let go !! :o)

I don't know what it is about this poor, sad, run down old seaside town, but I love it here. There is history everywhere, you only have to open your eyes & look  properly :o)
When I was a kid, for a few summers my Nan rented one of the chalets along the front. She & my Mum both worked at Rovex - now Hornby Hobbies - & on their summer break, we'd all pootle off to the beach for the day. We had to walk down, but at the end of the day, when we were all worn out from the fresh sea air, the swimming & the general running about that kids do, we'd come up the cliff in the lift. Back then, they had an attendant who wore a hat, a jacket & carried a leather pouch with a ticket machine, rather like that of a bus conductor. I remember it cost 2p for adults & 1p for children :o) Sometimes, we caught a bus home, other times we walked & after a day at the beach, because we lived in Anns Road,  it was a LONG walk to the other side of town :o)

Back then, the summer holidays seemed to last forever. Later, as a Mum to an energetic daughter, the summer holidays seemed to last FOREVER but now, they whizz by in a flash & before you know it, it's Christmas once again.

Back then, it seemed that we really did have long sunny days from June to September. The beaches & parks were full, Pleasurama was busy & the Marina swimming pool, where my brothers, sister & I all learned swim, was a heaving mass of bodies, splashing about in the water, while Mums & grandma's looked on, smiling & waving but probably wishing they were somewhere else instead !! :o)

One of my biggest memories is of my Mum filling a 3 litre plastic squash bottle with orange squash & freezing it overnight. When we went off to the beach or the Marina, she'd pack sandwiches & crisps & then take this big bottle out of the freezer, put it in the bag with the sandwiches & off we'd all go. The bottle defrosted during the day & we had lovely cold squash to drink all day long :o)

The summer of 1976 was, at the time, the hottest one on record. One day, we all trooped off to the beach as usual, but unfortunately, even though I had sun cream on, I got badly burnt. I left home as pale as self raising flour, but when I returned, I was like a sunburnt tomato. I remember having a cool shower, being smothered in cream & being given one of my Dad's cotton pyjama jackets to wear in bed, but I was in agony for days. To this day, I have a triangle shaped redness where my neck meets my chest :o) If I remember correctly, it's that shape because part way through the day, I put a V necked shirt on over my cossie :o)

As a teenager, I didn't spend a lot of time on the beach. I wasn't really beach body shaped :o) I was first in line when they handed out slim figures & beautiful faces, but as I held the door open for everyone else, I ended up with  bad eyes, a face full of freckles, buck teeth, hair that even now looks as though it wants to jump off my head & make it's home elsewhere & a body like the Michelin man. The teeth are fine now, but the rest remains the same :o)

Shaun's older brother was a hairdresser, but back in the late 70s & early 80s, he'd spend the summer as one of the Bingo callers at Pleasurama. At the end of the season, he'd go back to hairdressing.  Like many youngsters in the years before us & in the years to come, Shaun & I would often walk along the front, but if we dared venture into Pleasurama, we had to walk past the Bingo bit where my brother in law would do his best to embarrass the life out of us by saying things like *Hello, young lovers* & encourage his punters/customers to turn round & look at us. When we got engaged in August 1981, he even got his customers to clap as we walked through. Anyone who knows me well will know that there would have been a red sky over Ramsgate when that happened, because I can blush for England & hate, hate HATE being the centre of attention. My brother in law, being 8 years older than Shaun, seemed to enjoy pulling the big brother stunt at every opportunity & being young & naive, we never thought to challenge him, we just blushed & smiled our way through !! :o) If he tried it now, it'd be a different story !! :o)

When my daughter was small, we only spent a few days on the beach in the summer. She's lucky in that, like her Dad, she goes a bit red & then a lovely golden brown. I still burn as easily as I did when I was a kid, so we mostly went out on day trips to castles & museums, or she had her paddling pool in the garden. Mind you, if you asked her, she'd say she was deprived because she never had a sand pit !! :o) 

Fast forward to 2012 :o)

The past 6 summers have been pretty grotty, and so far, this year has really been bad. We can only hope that the weather forecasters are right when they say summer is on its way this week. Most of the schools have now closed for the holidays so hopefully, the kids will have a nice break. If not, then I suppose we can just hope for an Indian Summer when they all go back to school :o)

In the meantime, here are some photos taken yesterday. A typical 21st century British summer at the seaside !! :o)

 Not quite sure what this thing is, but I think it's something to do with the wind farm. I might be wrong, I probably am, but it's a pretty big boat/floaty thing & it looked pretty impressive sailing out !! :o)

 The skies had opened & we were on the way home from town, getting wetter by the minute. My boots decided to spring a leak, so I didn't walk home, I squelched home !! :o) If they'd done it in town, I could have bought some new ones, but no, they waited till we were more than half way home :o)

 Now I'm switiching to *grumpy not-so-old-woman* mode :o) When I was a kid & a young adult, weeds like this were never seen !! The council would have cleared them all, sprayed them or pulled them out. Not these days though. No doubt they'll say they don't have the resources or the man power, but quite frankly, with so many people unemployed in Thanet, I don't think it would hurt if those on Jobseeker's Allowance worked one day a week keeping the paths, beaches & parks clean & tidy. I'm not saying they should do it every day, but one day a week wouldn't kill them & quite frankly, I think it'd do them good & it'd do the town good, too.

 The back of Pugin's Grange. We've been trying to get there for the past few years, ever since the Landmark Trust *did it up*, but things always seem to happen to stop us - Shaun going into hospital, torrential rain, unexpected visitors etc. Maybe we'll get there in September, on their next open days. Fingers crossed :o)

 Fancy a swim ? You couldn't possibly get any wetter :o)

Ah !! A Ramsgate landmark !!! The famous blocked drain !!  I mentioned the drains in the *I've said it before . . *  blog :o) Some things never change & it's obvious that the council still haven't invested in a *sucky-up machine* !! :o))

My grandad was one of the Ramsgate Corporation gardeners & as kids, we'd often see him tending the flower beds along the front & in the parks. My great grandad was also a park gardener & I honestly believe that if they came back now, they'd be saddened to see the state the town is in.

And on that cheerful note, I shall bid you all a fond farewell & go & get this Saturday started :o)